Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Interviews with Women: Thoughts on RACE


RACE
If you love someone color is not an issue they are. Together you will overcome it.”
-Trisha Morgan
I was eating out on South beach (Miami, FLorida) and because maybe I was black, young looking or whatever the case was I sat at a restaurant and ordered and the waiter came to me saying am I sure I wanted to eat there because prices can go from $80-$100 a plate....
Yes, there are always ignorant people and the only way to stop that is not act the way you think they perceive you. I could of took it offensive but instead I said,  “Thank you.”  And [then] asked him what he would suggest from the menu that is good. I just learn not to always be on the defense.”  
Shanna-Kaye Kerr
There are no recent recollections of me experiencing racism, gender discrimination, or inequality personally. However, I have witnessed and I am fully aware that it still exists. Trudian Gordon
I am a Latina, but I don’t speak one word of Spanish. I was shopping at Target one day with my cousin when an older black women came to me and asked where the bathroom was. I realized I was wearing a red shirt like the Target employees do but I told the lady I didn’t work there and had no idea where the bathroom was. She then looked at me and said well you should your kind are always cleaning bathrooms. My cousin and I were so shocked we didn’t/couldn’t say a word. The women then said “What?!?! No speaky english? The woman then walked away and my cousin and I busted out laughing. At first we thought it was funny but after taking in what actually happened I became angry. So angry that I felt like going back to Target and giving that lady a piece of my mind.”  W. Diaz 
   “I had a female boss who was black and my husband is black, I am white. My boss was totally awesome until one day my husband brought me lunch and she asked who he was. She from that point on would give me sh-t. She would give me work that was extremely messed up made me work overtime and do all of the ridiculous office tasks. I couldn’t figure out what the problem was until one day we both happened to be on lunch watching the OJ Simpson trial. It became very clear that she did not like interracial marriages. 
.... I just kept my opinion to myself until one day I overheard her talking to another supervisor and how she had nicknamed me and my husband d Nicole and OJ. I took the matter to corporate and she was fired after a full investigation.”
            -Rachel B. 
“One distinct memory is when I was interviewed over the phone for a position and when I met the interviewer in person she had a strange look on her face. I few weeks after I took the job a coworker informed me that the interviewer thought I was white because of my voice and said I did not have a "black name". Samantha Brown
Are you a woman? Do you agree- Relate? Have an opinion or comment? 

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Dear W. Diaz,
I am Latina and speak Spanish and when I read this I could not believe that someone is that ignorant. I think I would have done the same thing you did which was laugh. But then I would be angry with myself for not saying anything. But at the same time I wish I would have said something I would have realized that there is really nothing to say to that. An argument wont make that person's ignorance disappear. I guess what I am trying to say is that there is no point to argue ignorance.